1ºI guess to summarize- a lot of things that are good for the goose- don't sound so great for the gander. But, maybe that could easily be changed. I'm sure there is a man out there willing to spike a drink and have a wild night or punch a domestic abuser. Maybe you could even find a woman. The law doesn't seem to want to do it's job fairly and impartially...... like I said, where does one sign up for retribution???? My daughter's father can try surviving on 35$ a week and re-arrange his work schedule and entire life while I bark about how I don't have time in my day to show up. It sounds better and better. I think we should start there.