The average wedding just hit $29,000

Weddings are back, in full force. That’s the good news. But engaged couples will pay more to get hitched in 2023.

           

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Imran Lalani

The problem with those books that make your argument is they ignore

1. Leverage of a down payment activating the entire gross value of real estate to grow vs just the down payment
2. Inflation moving at about 4.5% consuming the buying power of money in real terms
3. That you can’t invest directly in S&P. It’s a collection of top 500 companies that always changes to include top 500 - meaning - in 1929 (BTW there’s a math trick reason why they pick that year) the S&P was full of companies that don’t exist today like horse buggy companies.

Later in the 40s, 50s 60s etc. companies that made things that don’t exist. Blockbuster video was once on the list.

Those companies went bankrupt

Tracking the S&P over 90 years is like making a fantasy baseball team with dead players like Babe Ruth.

Historic Index funds picked some deceased companies that underperformed and have never reflected the Fantasy Team at any given real (fixed) time in history

4. The final proof is

You can walk down any middle class street in any city in North America and knock on doors of people who bought 30 years ago and meet someone living in a useful (likely million dollar) home that’s paid off

But I defy you to walk down the same street and knock on doors and find a SINGLE person in America that says yes, I invested one time 30 years ago in the stock market and I have $600k-$1M sitting in an account

One is a real life version to be found with most Boomers in any urban neighbourhood and the other is a stockbroker’s unicorn fantasy sales pitch

PS: they use 1929 as a math gimmick to inflate S&P performance because that was the famed Black Tuesday collapse of the stock market that started the Great Depression that only ended cuz of WWII in 1940.

The entire market tanked wiping out the entire country for a decade in the worse economic collapse in history .

That’s a nice date to use to measure S&P starting point as Day zero cuz it was worth Zero.

It’s not hard to get impressive growth numbers from - wiped out

They don’t use use 1928 (at its pre Depression Peak.) No kidding. That would screw their math up


We spent $6000 on our wedding in 2017 for 100 guests. My dress was on the $99 sale at David's Bridal. My uncle officiated, my aunt was the photographer, my cousin sang with her guitar, another cousin did hair, another cousin did make-up, we used the church My grandma goes to and got a discount and had the reception at the masonic lodge which was also a discount as I am a member of the lodge. We used paper flowers on Amazon and bought a lot of decorations at the dollar store or at Michael's. What cost the most was catering and the cake.


Imran Lalani

Who gets 10% consistently (with no fees or taxes) for 30 years?

That’s the pipe dream of every huckster pushing the stock market. Those investment books always pick 10% cuz money doubles every 7 years (if the interest is also reinvested at 10%) …and so on. But that doesn’t exist.

I hate it when people use twisted math and say this

No fund ever returned that for 30 years consistently. In fact some funds lose money in down decades.

Netting 5% consistently over that time would be a dream

Houses can do that with inflation because their asset growth is built-in to be a multiplier and they can do 5% at best, but it’s 5% on the entire value of the asset (mortgage and all) so your $29k leverages $300k to grow compounded and move up with inflation over 30 years


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